Attachement Parenting?

So I guess by guidelines yes, I follow attachment parenting, per say. For those that aren't too clear on this term here is the correct definition of attachment parenting.

Attachment parenting: a phrase coined by pediatrician William Sears, is a parenting philosophy based on the principles of the attachment theory in developmental psychology. According to attachment theory, the child forms a strong emotional bond with caregivers during childhood with lifelong consequences. Sensitive and emotionally available parenting helps the child to form a secure attachment style which fosters a child's socio-emotional development and well being. Less sensitive and emotionally available parenting or neglect of the child's needs may result in insecure forms of attachment style, which is a risk factor for many mental health problems. In extreme and rare conditions the child may not form an attachment at all and may suffer from reactive attachment disorder as defined in DSM-IV and ICD-10. Principles of attachment parenting aim to increase development of child's secure attachment and decrease insecure attachment.

1. Preparation for Pregnancy, Birth and Parenting
2. Feed with Love and Respect
3. Respond with Sensitivity
4. Use Nurturing Touch
5. Ensure Safe Sleep, Physically and Emotionally
6. Provide Consistent Loving Care
7. Practice Positive Discipline
8. Strive for Balance in Personal and Family Life

These values are interpreted in a variety of ways. Many attachment parents also choose to live a natural family living (NFL) lifestyle, such as natural childbirth, home birth, stay-at-home parenting, co-sleeping, breastfeeding, babywearing, homeschooling, unschooling, the anti-circumcision movement, natural health, cooperative movements, naturism and support of organic and local foods.

To get the full aspect of AP, I would highly suggest looking it up and doing more reading on the subject.

Now I know this is sometimes a touchy subject for some moms, but to me it's not. The only reason why I don't get all hot and bothered, is because, frankly, I don't care how you raise your child. As long as your child isn't abused and they are healthy, do what you feel is best.

I've done most things listed above, I had a natural birth, I breastfeed, we co-sleep and Lili determines most things in her schedule. If she is not tired when it's bed time, I let her play, if she is not hungry, she doesn't have to eat. At that moment. I'll give her some time and then I proceed with her schedule. I am not rigid, but I'm not a push over either. What mommy says goes...eventually. I personally believe AP, is the best option. I personally believe breastfeeding is best, I personally believe that if a child wants to sleep in the family bed, it should be allowed. I personally believe that letting a child cry it out is a little cruel. I personally believe that AP creates a fantastic parent-child bond. BUT, I also believe some parents take AP a little too far. Now, I don't do the whole "only organic" thing, I am not going to do the home school thing and I do not do the natural health gimic either. I don't think I want to deprive my child from public schooling, vaccines or regular food, but hey, that's me. I think when AP is pushed to the limit we come out with pasty, immune defiecent, whining, stubborn children.

There needs to be a balance, hopefully I've captured that balance. I want Lili to learn on her own, so when it comes to a lot of things, I let go.If I see she is about to fall on her tush, I don't run to put a pillow under her bum. But I also still nurse her because she decided it isn't time to stop yet.

So yeah I guess I am a baby-wearing, extended breastfeeding, co-sleeping, baby scheduling mom. What are you?

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